Friday, February 15, 2013

Aria by Richard Rodriquez - Reflection


Half way through reading this article I knew exactly what type of post I was going to do.  This article connected to me.   Working in a daycare, and teaching dance and gymnastics, I come across language barriers often.   
At the daycare I work at, we have three different families that speak Russian.  One little girl's parents speak both Russian and English very well, and she also speaks both languages very well.  Another little girl that goes to the daycare, was born in Russia, and came from an orphanage in Russia.  A co-worker of mine is also from Russia and spoke to the little girl.  The little girl told her about how she was treated by the older children at the orphanage.  The older children would torment the younger children with scary stories of what happened to their parents, and overall treating them poorly.   This particular little girl also talks in English very well.  The third little girl, would only talk in Russian when she first came to the daycare, or she would not talk at all.  Her parents speak English, and said she knew English, but she was too shy to talk.  Now that she has adjusted to the daycare she talks all of the time in English.  Actually we cannot get her to stop talking half of the time. 

This article also made me think of my first tutoring session on Wednesday because the teacher was telling me about a little boy whose parents do not speak English.  I believe she said that both parents speak Spanish at home.  However the boy’s mother also speaks a Native American language at home as well.  She then said that it is a wonder that he even functions at all having to learn the two languages at home and then English in school.  Surprisingly, he speaks English fairly well.   
Point to Share: I just hope that the families of the United States of an America that do not speak English and are forced to learn it are not being torn apart like the family in the article.  A mother should have to make small talk to have a conversation with her family.
 
I think that is article really connects to Amazing Grace by Jonathan Kozol, and The Silenced Dialogue by Lisa Delpi.  Aria and Amazing Grace both show how families are affected by the “culture of power”.  In Amazing Grace, families were moved into the south Bronx because they were not part of the middle or upper classes.  They were poor families, so they stuck them in a bad part of New York.  We basically told these people that they were not good enough to live where they wanted.  In Aria, the family was told to speak English, “for the sake of their children”.  They did not speak English so the nuns forced the parents to only speak English at home, changing the children’s home environment. 
 

6 comments:

  1. I have a friend who came from Poland when she was in middle school. Neither she nor her parents spoke English. She went to a catholic school where most of the nuns and students spoke Spanish. She learned English and some Spanish from watching Sesame Street! Her parents still do not speak English very well so she often is stuck translating for them which is time consuming and frustrating because she is married with a young daughter. When I read Aria I thought about her and her family and how in her case it would have been helpful for her parents to learn and practice a bit of English with her.

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  2. Nicole, your stories about bilingual children are great connections to the article. In our society, people who are learning English are actually being educated, rather than forced to learn the language. From my own observations in the community, it seems that many families who are learning English are increasing their communication skills. Parents learn from their children who talk about their experiences at school. Moreover, people want to learn the English lanuage so they can connect more socially and economically in society. In fact, those who are bilingual have a great job qualification. Unfortunately, this article shows difficult moments endured while learning the language. All experiences include those tough moments. Still, with the support from the nuns and subtle push from his family, the child was able to learn it. The nuns rather encouraged it so the child could better communicate in the classroom. In turn, the other children would also be able to speak better with the child. I think the parents felt more connected with their child's education after speaking with the nuns and were able to understand what American schools entailed. Supportive people are needed in order for children to feel welcome while learning a new language, as shown by your own personal experiences at the daycare.
    Pretty campground pictures by the way :]

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  3. Totally agree with your point to share! So sad that families have to go through this. I hope as time changes this will too!

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  4. First of all, I really liked the link you provided. I liked how it showed that twenty-eight states have declared English as the official language. I feel as though it really ties into the piece. Unlike what happened to Rodriguez's family, when my mother's family had to learn English, my grandparents were never told to stop using French, their native language, with my mother and aunt. I don't think it's beneficial to a family that is learning English to completely abandon their native language in the home, especially if it's forced.

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  5. Hi Nicole! I really liked the way you added your personal experiences to help us understand the article on a more personal level. On the last few sentences of your article, you mention that at tutoring the teacher wondered how the student functioned hearing two languages. It's great he can speak English fairly well and I hope he is able to embrace his parent's cultures and remember the languages to pass along to his children. I think as a child it would be cool to have a friend who spoke another language, or two.

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  6. Awesome post Nicole! I believe that if people are coming to the United States they should be willing to learn english since that is what their children will speak in school! Though it is terrible how it tore the family in the article apart, and I hate seeing more and more families broken because they aren't willing to sacrifice even to help their children with what they need to learn.

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